{"id":779,"date":"2021-05-01T07:01:52","date_gmt":"2021-05-01T06:01:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=779"},"modified":"2021-05-01T07:01:53","modified_gmt":"2021-05-01T06:01:53","slug":"anne-baba-cocuk-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=779","title":{"rendered":"#anne-baba-\u00e7ocuk"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Anlamak, en az\u0131ndan anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, bunun i\u00e7in kula\u011f\u0131, g\u00f6z\u00fc, kalbi a\u00e7mak\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O an di\u011fer her \u015feyi bo\u015fverebilip sadece kar\u015f\u0131dakini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak.. Kolay gibi geliyor kula\u011fa ama belki de en zor \u015feylerden biri. Ger\u00e7ekten de \u00f6\u011frenilmesi, pratik edilmesi gereken bir konu. Genelde ak\u0131l ba\u015fka \u015feylerle dolu oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ya ful konsantre dinlemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmuyor ya da kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini kendi zihnindeki \u015fablona oturtmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor insan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu konular \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirirken g\u00fcndeme geliyor ama ke\u015fke yeti\u015fkinler sadece kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 de\u011fil di\u011fer yeti\u015fkinlere kar\u015f\u0131 da bu \u015fekilde davranmak, yakla\u015fmak konusunda dikkatli ve \u00f6zenli olsa. Ke\u015fke \u00f6ncelik ele\u015ftirmek, yarg\u0131lamak, savunmaya ge\u00e7mek, kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlatmak de\u011fil, anlamak, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ard\u0131ndaki duyguyu fark etmek, bu duyguya yer a\u00e7mak, kar\u015f\u0131daki ki\u015finin de fikirlerine, duygular\u0131na de\u011fer vermek ve sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermek olsa. Tabii, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131. \u0130kili bir ili\u015fkide bunu tek ki\u015finin yap\u0131yor olmas\u0131 hi\u00e7 adil ya da s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilir de\u011fil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6yle olsa \u00e7ocuklarla ileti\u015fim konusuna bu kadar kafa yormak zaten gerekmeyecek muhtemelen, hepsi kendili\u011finden olacak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kitapta ili\u015fkilerdeki misillemeye\/etki-tepki reaksiyonuna \u00f6rnek olabilecek \u015f\u00f6yle e\u011flenceli bir \u00f6rnek var. Konu\u015fma sert miza\u00e7l\u0131 Mr. Garret ile a\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7iyor (sf. 111):<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u015eu andan itibaren size kar\u015f\u0131 daha nazik olaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d dedi Mr. Garret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u00d6\u011fle yeme\u011fini biraz geciktirirsem, bana ba\u011f\u0131rmayacak m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d diye sordu a\u015f\u00e7\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHay\u0131r.\u201d dedi Mr. Garret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKahve yeterince s\u0131cak olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, y\u00fcz\u00fcme f\u0131rlatmayacak m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cArt\u0131k hay\u0131r.\u201d Mr. Garret\u2019in cevab\u0131 empatikti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBiftek yeterince pi\u015fmemi\u015fse, maa\u015f\u0131mdan kesmeyecek misiniz?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHay\u0131r bunu kesinlikle yapmayaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d diye tekrarlad\u0131 Mr. Garret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPeki.\u201d dedi a\u015f\u00e7\u0131, \u201c\u00f6yleyse ben de bir daha \u00e7orban\u0131za t\u00fck\u00fcrmeyece\u011fim.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto\u011fraf Scott Webb, Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Anlamak, en az\u0131ndan anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, bunun i\u00e7in kula\u011f\u0131, g\u00f6z\u00fc, kalbi a\u00e7mak\u2026  O an di\u011fer her \u015feyi bo\u015fverebilip sadece kar\u015f\u0131dakini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak.. Kolay gibi geliyor kula\u011fa ama belki de en zor \u015feylerden biri. Ger\u00e7ekten de \u00f6\u011frenilmesi, pratik edilmesi gereken bir konu. Genelde ak\u0131l ba\u015fka \u015feylerle dolu oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ya ful konsantre dinlemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmuyor ya da […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":784,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/779"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=779"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/779\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":785,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/779\/revisions\/785"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/784"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=779"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=779"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=779"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}