{"id":771,"date":"2021-04-27T10:32:27","date_gmt":"2021-04-27T09:32:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=771"},"modified":"2021-04-27T10:32:28","modified_gmt":"2021-04-27T09:32:28","slug":"anne-baba-cocuk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=771","title":{"rendered":"#anne-baba-\u00e7ocuk"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-772\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.2-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-773\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.2-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.3-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-774\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.3-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.3-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.3-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.3-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.3.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.4-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-775\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.4-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.4-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.4-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.4-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.4-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post58.4.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Covid d\u00f6neminde, tam kapanma zamanlar\u0131nda en \u00e7ok \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kan konulardan biri ileti\u015fim konusu oldu. Covid \u00f6ncesi \u00e7ocuklar okula gidiyorlar, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorlar, akraba g\u00f6r\u00fcyorlar, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla oluyorlard\u0131. K\u0131sacas\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla ileti\u015fime giriyor, anne-babalar da \u00e7ocuksuz vakit ge\u00e7iriyorlard\u0131. Kapanmalarda ise s\u00fcrekli bir arada olmak gibi zorlu bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 bekliyor herkesi\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu kitap \u00e7ocukla ileti\u015fimde nelerin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu, \u00e7ocu\u011fun nas\u0131l bir ruh hali i\u00e7indeyken neler ya\u015f\u0131yor olabilece\u011fini, neye ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu \u00e7ok g\u00fczel anlat\u0131yor ve ileti\u015fim konusunu \u00f6rneklerle \u00e7ok g\u00fczel a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuk ile ileti\u015fim anne-baban\u0131n hem kendisiyle hem de di\u011ferleriyle kurdu\u011fu ileti\u015fime \u00e7ok g\u00fczel ayna tutan bir mesele. \u00c7ocuk ile kurulan ili\u015fki, ileti\u015fim konusunda yeti\u015fkinin neyi yapabilip neyi yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hangi konuda fazlal\u0131klar\u0131\/eksiklikleri oldu\u011funu t\u00fcm a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne seren, anne-babalar kendilerini g\u00f6zlemlerlerse kendilerine dair bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi fark edebilecekleri bir ili\u015fki.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak zor olan \u015fu ki, \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken anne-babalar\u0131n bazen kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6recek alanlar\u0131 kalmayabiliyor, zamanlar\u0131 olmayabiliyor. Zaten genelde de \u00e7ocu\u011fa idealde nas\u0131l davranmak gerekti\u011fi \u00fczerine \u00e7ok konu\u015fulurken, anne-baban\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 genelde arka planda kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun \u00f6ncelikli oldu\u011fu kabul ancak bu konu hep iki y\u00f6nl\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeli asl\u0131nda. \u00c7ocu\u011fun neye ihtiyac\u0131 var ve ama bir de, o an kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki yeti\u015fkinin neye ihtiyac\u0131 var? Kitaptan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00f6rnekler yeti\u015fkinler i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erli mesela: Hangi yeti\u015fkin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc duygular i\u00e7indeyken \u00f6\u011f\u00fct, teselli ya da yap\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftiri kabul eder ki? Hangi yeti\u015fkin k\u00f6t\u00fc hissederken net olarak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ki..?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fakat tabii ki \u00e7ocu\u011fun yeti\u015fkinin ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 anlamas\u0131 beklenemeyece\u011fi i\u00e7in bu iki katmanl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce s\u00fcreci yeti\u015fkinin sorumlulu\u011funda oluyor ve burada da konu yine fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6nemine geliyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ki\u015fi ancak kendisinin ne hissetti\u011fini bilebildi\u011finde kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini daha objektif bir \u015fekilde de\u011ferlendirebiliyor ve bu hi\u00e7 kolay bir \u015fey de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf, Mitchell Luo, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.unsplash.com\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Covid d\u00f6neminde, tam kapanma zamanlar\u0131nda en \u00e7ok \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kan konulardan biri ileti\u015fim konusu oldu. Covid \u00f6ncesi \u00e7ocuklar okula gidiyorlar, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorlar, akraba g\u00f6r\u00fcyorlar, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla oluyorlard\u0131. K\u0131sacas\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla ileti\u015fime giriyor, anne-babalar da \u00e7ocuksuz vakit ge\u00e7iriyorlard\u0131. Kapanmalarda ise s\u00fcrekli bir arada olmak gibi zorlu bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 bekliyor herkesi\u2026 Bu kitap \u00e7ocukla ileti\u015fimde nelerin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu, \u00e7ocu\u011fun nas\u0131l [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":776,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/771"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=771"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":777,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/771\/revisions\/777"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/776"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}