{"id":756,"date":"2021-04-16T12:58:14","date_gmt":"2021-04-16T11:58:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=756"},"modified":"2021-04-16T12:58:15","modified_gmt":"2021-04-16T11:58:15","slug":"baba-islevi3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=756","title":{"rendered":"#baba i\u015flevi3"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post56.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-757\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post56.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post56.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post56.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post56.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post56.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post56.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Baban\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ve deste\u011finin bebek\/\u00e7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131nda elzem oldu\u011funun, baban\u0131n ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funun bir kere daha alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izelim. Buradaki \u2018destek\u2019 kelimesinden yola \u00e7\u0131karak yap\u0131labilen \u2018baban\u0131n olmasa da olaca\u011f\u0131, bak\u0131m s\u00fcrecince (sadece) anneye yard\u0131mc\u0131 ve destek olabildi\u011fi\u2019 kodlamas\u0131 asl\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f bir kodlamad\u0131r: Baban\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 anneye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak de\u011fil, kendi ebeveynli\u011fini\/babal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapmakt\u0131r -ve tabii ki yard\u0131m bunun bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r, tabii ki e\u015fler birbirlerine yard\u0131m edeceklerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bella Habip\u2019in aktard\u0131klar\u0131ndan devam edecek olursak.. Baba \u00e7ocu\u011fun ihtiyac\u0131 olan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc \u00e7er\u00e7eveyi \u00e7izendir ayn\u0131 zamanda. Winnicott\u2019un \u201cD. W. Winnciott D. W. Winnciott\u2019u anlat\u0131yor\u201d makalesinde bahsetti\u011fi iki t\u00fcr mahrumiyet vard\u0131r: Birincisi annenin kayb\u0131 ile gelen mahrumiyet, ikincisi \u00e7er\u00e7evenin ya da bu \u00e7er\u00e7evenin sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n kayb\u0131 ile gelen mahrumiyet. Her ne kadar annenin de bir \u00e7er\u00e7eve \u00e7izmesi \u00f6nemli olsa da, \u00e7er\u00e7eve sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili olan ikinci mahrumiyet daha \u00e7ok babayla ilgili olan, baban\u0131n korumas\u0131 gereken k\u0131s\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bella Habip\u2019in belirtti\u011fi \u00f6nemli noktalardan ba\u015fka bir tanesi de \u00e7ocu\u011fun yeti\u015fti\u011fi ortamda bir yap\u0131 olmazsa, sald\u0131rganl\u0131k ve nefret engellenmezse bak\u0131m\u0131n \u00e7ok yetersiz kalaca\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuk \u00e7er\u00e7eveye mutlaka sald\u0131racak, bu \u00e7er\u00e7evenin ne kadar sa\u011flam oldu\u011funu test edecektir. Bu sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rmeye, yani sald\u0131rganl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade etti\u011finde y\u0131k\u0131lmayan bir yap\u0131ya ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu \u015fekilde sald\u0131rganl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ya\u015fayabilecek ve onu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf, Milad Fakurian, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.unsplash.com\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Baban\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ve deste\u011finin bebek\/\u00e7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131nda elzem oldu\u011funun, baban\u0131n ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funun bir kere daha alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izelim. Buradaki \u2018destek\u2019 kelimesinden yola \u00e7\u0131karak yap\u0131labilen \u2018baban\u0131n olmasa da olaca\u011f\u0131, bak\u0131m s\u00fcrecince (sadece) anneye yard\u0131mc\u0131 ve destek olabildi\u011fi\u2019 kodlamas\u0131 asl\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f bir kodlamad\u0131r: Baban\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 anneye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak de\u011fil, kendi ebeveynli\u011fini\/babal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapmakt\u0131r -ve tabii ki [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":758,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/756"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=756"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/756\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":759,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/756\/revisions\/759"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/758"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=756"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=756"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=756"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}