{"id":744,"date":"2021-04-12T16:22:46","date_gmt":"2021-04-12T15:22:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=744"},"modified":"2021-04-12T16:22:46","modified_gmt":"2021-04-12T15:22:46","slug":"baba-islevi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=744","title":{"rendered":"#baba i\u015flevi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.1-2-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-746\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.1-2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.1-2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.1-2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.1-2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.1-2-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.1-2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.2-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.2-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/post54.2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Psikanalist Bella Habip bu yaz\u0131s\u0131nda Winnicott ve yap\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131 baba i\u015flevi \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde ele al\u0131yor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yukar\u0131da al\u0131nt\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, klinikte kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan noktan\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 ise, Winnicott\u2019un \u201c\u0130nsan Do\u011fas\u0131\u201d yap\u0131t\u0131nda \u2018\u00e7ocu\u011fun tek ba\u015f\u0131na kalma yetene\u011fini geli\u015ftirmesi i\u00e7in annenin cinsel hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemi\u2019ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 vurgudan yola \u00e7\u0131karak \u00e7iziyor. \u00c7ok k\u0131saca s\u00f6ylenecek olursa, Winnicott\u2019a g\u00f6re bir annenin bebe\u011fini besleyebilmesi kuvvetli bir cinsel uyar\u0131m ile olabilmektedir: Burada yazar hem kad\u0131ns\u0131 olana g\u00f6nderme yapmakta hem de baban\u0131n cinsel g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc vurgulamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hamilelikte ve do\u011fum sonras\u0131nda cinsellik her ikili ili\u015fkide ba\u015fka \u015fekilde olacakt\u0131r elbette. Burada \u00f6ncelikli olarak kastedilen anne-baba aras\u0131ndaki cinsel \u00e7ekim, cinsel arzudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Annelerin bebek bak\u0131m\u0131nda (herkesin akl\u0131na gelebilecek sebeplerle) \u00f6ncelikli olmas\u0131 babalar\u0131n arka planda olaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmiyor asl\u0131nda, gelmemeli. Tam tersi, annenin anneli\u011fini daha iyi yapabilmesi baban\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sayesinde m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr denebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu da bir yandan, baban\u0131n da duygusal anlamda nas\u0131l oldu\u011funun ne kadar \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatmal\u0131 bizlere. Hep anne merak ediliyor ve soruluyor ama acaba baba bir bebe\u011fin gelmi\u015f olmas\u0131yla ilgili, baba olmakla ilgili nas\u0131l hissediyor, acaba neler ya\u015f\u0131yor, acaba anneye ve bebe\u011fe bakmaya dair kendini ne kadar haz\u0131r hissediyor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf, Junpeng Ouyang, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Psikanalist Bella Habip bu yaz\u0131s\u0131nda Winnicott ve yap\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131 baba i\u015flevi \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde ele al\u0131yor.&nbsp; Yukar\u0131da al\u0131nt\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, klinikte kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan noktan\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 ise, Winnicott\u2019un \u201c\u0130nsan Do\u011fas\u0131\u201d yap\u0131t\u0131nda \u2018\u00e7ocu\u011fun tek ba\u015f\u0131na kalma yetene\u011fini geli\u015ftirmesi i\u00e7in annenin cinsel hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemi\u2019ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 vurgudan yola \u00e7\u0131karak \u00e7iziyor. \u00c7ok k\u0131saca s\u00f6ylenecek olursa, Winnicott\u2019a g\u00f6re bir annenin bebe\u011fini besleyebilmesi kuvvetli bir cinsel uyar\u0131m ile [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":748,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/744"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=744"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/744\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":749,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/744\/revisions\/749"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/748"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=744"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=744"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=744"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}