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(D\u00fcnden devam)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir durumun normal\/anormal yelpazesinde nereye yerle\u015fti\u011fi i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu k\u00fclt\u00fcr normlar\u0131ndan ne kadar sapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fczerinden de de\u011ferlendirilebilir. U\u00e7 bir \u00f6rnek olacak belki ama, cinsel organlar\u0131 sadece k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir kuma\u015f par\u00e7as\u0131yla kapatarak gezinmek bir kabilede kimsenin umurunda olmayabilecekken, bir \u015fehirde bu \u015fekilde d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak t\u00fcm dikkati \u00e7ekecektir. Hatta muhtemelen hemen polise haber verilecek, ki\u015fi en k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede zapturapt alt\u0131na al\u0131nacakt\u0131r.
Burada bu anormal duruma \u2018hastal\u0131k\u2019 etiketini yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmadan \u00f6nce bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya devam etmeli ve alt\u0131nda neyin yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamal\u0131. E\u011fer bir iddia kaybetti\u011fi i\u00e7in \u015fehirde bu \u015fekilde gezinen birisi s\u00f6z konusuysa ba\u015fka, nerede oldu\u011funu bilmeyen, kendisini kontrol edemeyen birisi s\u00f6z konusuysa ba\u015fka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ya\u015f grubu i\u00e7in de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn, \u00f6zellikle geli\u015fimin devam etti\u011fi, ergenlik sonuna kadar olan d\u00f6nemde: Bir bebe\u011fin\/\u00e7ocu\u011fun\/ergenin b\u00fcy\u00fcmesinde, uykusunda, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda, ili\u015fki kurma bi\u00e7iminde, vs.de normalden sapan bir durum olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendi ya\u015f grubunun \u00f6zellikleriyle \u00e7e\u015fitli kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmalar yaparak ve kendisini g\u00f6zlemleyerek anlamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.
Kendi \u00fclkesinde olan, her iki ebeveyninden de ana dilini duyan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun zaman\u0131 geldi\u011finde konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flamamas\u0131 ba\u015fka, yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda olup g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde farkl\u0131 diller duyan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flamamas\u0131 ise ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc de\u011ferlendirilecektir \u00f6rne\u011fin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 anormal durumlar hastal\u0131\u011fa i\u015faret eder elbette, ancak hastal\u0131k ba\u015fka, hasta ba\u015fka. Hatta belki hastal\u0131k yok hasta var diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek daha do\u011fru. Kategoriler iyi ve yeri geldi\u011finde faydal\u0131 ama asla yeterli de\u011fil. Ne sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, ne hastal\u0131kl\u0131, ne norm, ne norm d\u0131\u015f\u0131, bunlar her ki\u015finin bireyselli\u011finde \u00e7ok iyi ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 ve anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken konular.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Konuyu bitirmeden, Freud\u2019un bir mektubunda yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cBir insan ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 sormaya ba\u015flarsa, hasta oldu demektir.\u201di de eklemek istiyorum (Bert Kaplan’\u0131n Ak\u0131l Hastalar\u0131n\u0131n \u0130\u00e7 D\u00fcnyas\u0131 kitab\u0131ndan al\u0131nt\u0131). Freud\u2019un ne demek istedi\u011fi, herkes i\u00e7in de\u011fi\u015febilir. Bana bu instagram hesab\u0131 \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce ebeveynlikle birlikte gelebilen sorgulamay\u0131 hat\u0131rlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto\u011fraf, Gemma Evans, Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
(D\u00fcnden devam) Bir durumun normal\/anormal yelpazesinde nereye yerle\u015fti\u011fi i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu k\u00fclt\u00fcr normlar\u0131ndan ne kadar sapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fczerinden de de\u011ferlendirilebilir. U\u00e7 bir \u00f6rnek olacak belki ama, cinsel organlar\u0131 sadece k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir kuma\u015f par\u00e7as\u0131yla kapatarak gezinmek bir kabilede kimsenin umurunda olmayabilecekken, bir \u015fehirde bu \u015fekilde d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak t\u00fcm dikkati \u00e7ekecektir. Hatta muhtemelen hemen polise haber verilecek, ki\u015fi en […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":643,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[23],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/641"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=641"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/641\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":645,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/641\/revisions\/645"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}