{"id":592,"date":"2020-12-21T13:49:34","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T12:49:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=592"},"modified":"2020-12-21T15:22:52","modified_gmt":"2020-12-21T14:22:52","slug":"gelisim1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=592","title":{"rendered":"geli\u015fim1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-593\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.2-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-594\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.2-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.3-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-595\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.3-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.3-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.3-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.3-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post28.3.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Judith Rich Harris &#8216;No Two Alike&#8217; (&#8216;Kimse Birbirine Benzemez&#8217;?) adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda her bireyin karakter yap\u0131lanmas\u0131n\u0131n biriciklig\u0306ini ele al\u0131yor. Genetig\u0306in ve ic\u0327ine dog\u0306ulan aile ortam\u0131n\u0131n o\u0308nemini yads\u0131madan aile d\u0131s\u0327\u0131ndaki o\u0308znel her tekil yas\u0327ant\u0131n\u0131n da kis\u0327ilik olus\u0327umunda nas\u0131l bu\u0308yu\u0308k bir etkisi olabileceg\u0306ini derinlemesine anlat\u0131yor. Bunu bir yerde tek yumurta ikizleri u\u0308zerinden, s\u0327u s\u0327ekilde o\u0308rneklendiriyor (ben burada biraz daha karikatu\u0308rize ediyorum):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tek yumurta ikizlerini du\u0308s\u0327u\u0308nelim, bu iki kis\u0327i ayn\u0131 anneye ayn\u0131 babaya ayn\u0131 genetik yap\u0131ya ayn\u0131 aile ortam\u0131na sahipler. Bu mu\u0308mku\u0308n olmasa da (c\u0327u\u0308nku\u0308 ayn\u0131 ebeveyn her c\u0327ocug\u0306una farkl\u0131 bir ilis\u0327ki kipiyle yaklas\u0327\u0131r) anne-babalar\u0131 her ikisine de ayn\u0131 s\u0327ekilde yaklas\u0327\u0131yorlar diyelim, bu da mu\u0308mku\u0308n deg\u0306il ama hep ayn\u0131 deneyimleri yas\u0327\u0131yor olsunlar, ayn\u0131 h\u0131zda bu\u0308yu\u0308su\u0308nler, bunlar da mu\u0308mku\u0308n deg\u0306il tabii ama hep ayn\u0131 hissettiklerini, hep ayn\u0131 arkadas\u0327lar\u0131 oldug\u0306unu ve herkesin onlara hep ayn\u0131 s\u0327ekilde davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 du\u0308s\u0327u\u0308nelim. Okul c\u0327ag\u0306\u0131nda da ayn\u0131 okulda ve tabii ayn\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131fta olsunlar.<br>S\u0327imdilik beyin yap\u0131lanmalar\u0131n\u0131n da t\u0131pat\u0131p ayn\u0131 oldug\u0306unu so\u0308yleyebiliriz.<br>Harris s\u0327unu vurguluyor: Mesela bir gu\u0308n bu ikizlerden biri tuvaleti geldig\u0306i ic\u0327in dersten c\u0327\u0131karsa, o anda beyin yap\u0131lanmalar\u0131nda farkl\u0131las\u0327ma bas\u0327lar. C\u0327u\u0308nku\u0308 bu ayr\u0131l\u0131kta mutlaka bas\u0327ka s\u0327eyler yas\u0327arlar ve yas\u0327anan deneyimlerle birlikte ya beyinde var olan bir ag\u0306 kullan\u0131l\u0131r (ve bo\u0308ylece bu ag\u0306 pekis\u0327ir) ya da yeni ag\u0306lar kurulur. Tuvalete giden belki bir otorite figu\u0308ru\u0308yle kars\u0327\u0131las\u0327\u0131r ve azarlan\u0131r, belki sevdig\u0306i bir arkadas\u0327\u0131yla kars\u0327\u0131las\u0327\u0131r ve biraz muhabbet eder, mutlu olur, belki bas\u0327ka bir s\u0327ey olur, belki de hic\u0327bir s\u0327ey olmaz. S\u0131n\u0131fta kalan da bir s\u0327eyler yas\u0327ar, belki zor bir soruyu dog\u0306ru yapar ve o\u0308vgu\u0308 al\u0131r, belki c\u0327ok kolay bir soruyu yapamaz ve dalga konusu olur, belki de bunlar\u0131n hic\u0327biri olmaz. Ama farkl\u0131 bir s\u0327eyler yas\u0327an\u0131r ve bir s\u0327eyleri farkl\u0131 alg\u0131lamaya, ayn\u0131 s\u0327eye farkl\u0131 tepkiler vermeye, farkl\u0131 du\u0308s\u0327u\u0308nmeye ve hissetmeye bas\u0327larlar. K\u0131sacas\u0131, beyinlerinde farkl\u0131 dallanmalar olus\u0327maya bas\u0327lar, bu da kis\u0327ilik yap\u0131lanmalar\u0131nda farkl\u0131las\u0327ma ba\u015flat\u0131r. Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn de biraz daha biricik olurlar.<br>(Yar\u0131n devam\u2026)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf, Alice Butenko, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.unsplash.com\" target=\"_blank\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Judith Rich Harris &#8216;No Two Alike&#8217; (&#8216;Kimse Birbirine Benzemez&#8217;?) adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda her bireyin karakter yap\u0131lanmas\u0131n\u0131n biriciklig\u0306ini ele al\u0131yor. Genetig\u0306in ve ic\u0327ine dog\u0306ulan aile ortam\u0131n\u0131n o\u0308nemini yads\u0131madan aile d\u0131s\u0327\u0131ndaki o\u0308znel her tekil yas\u0327ant\u0131n\u0131n da kis\u0327ilik olus\u0327umunda nas\u0131l bu\u0308yu\u0308k bir etkisi olabileceg\u0306ini derinlemesine anlat\u0131yor. Bunu bir yerde tek yumurta ikizleri u\u0308zerinden, s\u0327u s\u0327ekilde o\u0308rneklendiriyor (ben burada biraz [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":596,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[22],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/592"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=592"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/592\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":599,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/592\/revisions\/599"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/596"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=592"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=592"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=592"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}