{"id":542,"date":"2020-12-11T19:45:42","date_gmt":"2020-12-11T18:45:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=542"},"modified":"2020-12-11T19:47:54","modified_gmt":"2020-12-11T18:47:54","slug":"cocuklu-hayat1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=542","title":{"rendered":"\u00e7ocuklu hayat1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.2-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-544\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.2-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Post21.2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Duyarl\u0131 ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na en iyi \u015fekilde davranmak, onlara zarar vermemek, \u00e7ocukla ileti\u015fim konusunda kendilerini geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ellerinden geleni yap\u0131yorlar. Neyle u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bilmek i\u00e7in de okuyor, ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorlar. Bunlar \u00e7ok de\u011ferli ve faydal\u0131, ayr\u0131ca d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan geleceklere kar\u015f\u0131 bir kalkan olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in de gerekli. Ancak Winnicott&#8217;un vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fu noktalar da \u00f6nemli:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;G\u00fcvenilir olmay\u0131 konu ile ilgili kitaplar okuyarak, seminerler dinleyerek ba\u015faramayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r.&#8221; (sf. 93)<br>&#8220;E\u011fer isterseniz t\u00fcm ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 insan geli\u015fimine dair ilgin\u00e7 ara\u015ft\u0131rma projeleriyle ge\u00e7irebilirsiniz ama b\u00f6yle bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n, sadece size ihtiya\u00e7 duyan \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla ili\u015fkinizde bir faydas\u0131 olmayacakt\u0131r.&#8221; (sf. 95)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuk taraf\u0131ndan g\u00fcvenilir olmak, \u00e7ocukla olan ili\u015fki i\u00e7erisinde zamanla olu\u015facak, zamanla \u015fekil alacak bir \u015fey. Ebeveyn de bu ili\u015fkide geli\u015fiyor ve de\u011fi\u015fiyor ne de olsa. Okumak, \u00f6\u011frenmek, geli\u015fmek \u00e7ok k\u0131ymetli, bu tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lmaz fakat \u00e7ocu\u011fun as\u0131l ihtiyac\u0131 her \u015feyi bilen bir anne-babadan ziyade, onlarla kuraca\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek bir ili\u015fki, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca kesintisiz bir ileti\u015fim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7ilen deneyim ve ger\u00e7ek bir etkile\u015fim bilgiden her zaman \u00e7ok daha \u00f6\u011fretici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun evde nas\u0131l bir fig\u00fcre ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011fu konusuna yar\u0131n de\u011finece\u011fim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf Kevin Borrill, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.unsplash.com\" target=\"_blank\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Duyarl\u0131 ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na en iyi \u015fekilde davranmak, onlara zarar vermemek, \u00e7ocukla ileti\u015fim konusunda kendilerini geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ellerinden geleni yap\u0131yorlar. Neyle u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bilmek i\u00e7in de okuyor, ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorlar. Bunlar \u00e7ok de\u011ferli ve faydal\u0131, ayr\u0131ca d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan geleceklere kar\u015f\u0131 bir kalkan olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in de gerekli. Ancak Winnicott&#8217;un vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fu noktalar da \u00f6nemli: &#8220;G\u00fcvenilir olmay\u0131 konu ile ilgili kitaplar okuyarak, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":545,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[20],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/542"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=542"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/542\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":547,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/542\/revisions\/547"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=542"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=542"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=542"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}