{"id":482,"date":"2020-12-03T22:30:31","date_gmt":"2020-12-03T21:30:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=482"},"modified":"2020-12-03T22:57:28","modified_gmt":"2020-12-03T21:57:28","slug":"baba1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=482","title":{"rendered":"baba1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-483\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.2-1024x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-484\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.2-1024x1024.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.2-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.2-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.2-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.2-620x620.jpeg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post12.2.2.jpeg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Biraz da babadan bahsedelim. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman d\u0131\u015far\u0131da kalan\/ b\u0131rak\u0131lan\/ hissedebilen baba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bella Habip a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u015f konu\u015fmas\u0131nda yukar\u0131da yazanlara ek olarak \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor:<br>&#8220;En ba\u015fta, bebe\u011fin ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n ilk aylar\u0131nda, baba, &#8216;anne-olmayan&#8217;\u0131 temsil eder ve varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 temel bir olumsuzlukla e\u015fde\u011ferdir. Baba bir yabanc\u0131d\u0131r ve istenmeyen bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r bebek i\u00e7in. Daha sonra, tabii her \u015fey yolunda giderse, baba bu olumsuz fig\u00fcrden &#8216;anneden farkl\u0131 olan&#8217; diye tabir edilebilecek bir ba\u015fka fig\u00fcre evrilir. Baban\u0131n bu olumsuz fig\u00fcrden, anneden farkl\u0131 ve daha ilgin\u00e7 bir fig\u00fcre do\u011fru evrilmesi belirli bir ruhsal in\u015faat\u0131, ruhsal \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 gerektirecektir.&#8221; (sf. 3-4)<br>&#8220;Annenin karn\u0131nda iken sesinden ke\u015ffedilen bu baba daha sonra anenin zihnindeki yeriyle de bebe\u011fin ruhsall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n olu\u015fum s\u00fcrecinde ilk \u00fc\u00e7geni sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r.&#8221; (sf. 4)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eu bir ger\u00e7ek ki ilk ba\u015flarda bebek ile vakit ge\u00e7iren sadece anne gibidir, sanki baba olmasa da olur gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckmektedir. Halbuki baban\u0131n \u00f6ncelikle annenin zihnindeki yeri, sonra bebek ile ger\u00e7ek ileti\u015fimi\/ili\u015fkisi bebe\u011fin ruhsall\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ok etkilidir, ilk g\u00fcnden beri.<br>Annenin zihnindeki yeri \u00f6zellikle \u00f6nemlidir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bebe\u011fin zihni annenin zihninden etkilenmektedir ve anne kendi zihninde babaya alan a\u00e7mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fcddet\u00e7e bebe\u011fin zihninde de bir \u00f6tekiye yer a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131, yani baban\u0131n aile sahnesinde rol almas\u0131 zor olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8216;Baba&#8217; konusundan daha \u00e7ok bahsedece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not: Payla\u015f\u0131mdaki &#8220;ilk sahne&#8221; ile anne ile baba aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan cinsel ili\u015fki kastedilmektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf, Jarren Simmons, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplashc.om\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.unsplashc.om\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Biraz da babadan bahsedelim. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman d\u0131\u015far\u0131da kalan\/ b\u0131rak\u0131lan\/ hissedebilen baba. 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