{"id":462,"date":"2020-12-02T16:06:45","date_gmt":"2020-12-02T15:06:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=462"},"modified":"2020-12-02T16:11:00","modified_gmt":"2020-12-02T15:11:00","slug":"anne1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=462","title":{"rendered":"anne1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post11.2.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-474\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post11.2.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post11.2.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post11.2.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post11.2.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post11.2.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post11.2.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Winnicott \u015f\u00f6yle devam ediyor:<br>&#8220;Kendilerini kolayca yetersiz hissederler. Her \u015fey i\u00e7in kitaba bakmak ya da radyo dinlemek zorunda kal\u0131rlarsa do\u011fru \u015feyi yapsalar bile hep \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 kalm\u0131\u015f olacaklard\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fru olan derhal yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Tam olarak do\u011fru zamanda harekete ge\u00e7mek, deyim yerindeyse hareket sadece sezgisel veya i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcsel ise m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir. Daha sonras\u0131nda i\u015fin i\u00e7ine ak\u0131l girebilir ve insanlar ne olup bitti\u011fini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131nda bizim yapmam\u0131z gereken onlara bu konuda yard\u0131m etmektir. Kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kald\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7e\u015fitli sorunlar\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n olas\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fabiliriz. Ama bu onlara ne yapacaklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemekle ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fildir.&#8221; (sf. 4)<br>Bu son c\u00fcmle \u00e7ok ama \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Winnicott anneleri anlaman\u0131n, onlara kendilerini anlamada yard\u0131mc\u0131 olman\u0131n \u00f6nemini vurgulamaktad\u0131r. Birine bir an ne yapmas\u0131n\u0131n daha iyi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemenin o an i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 bir taraf\u0131 olacak olsa da, bu ge\u00e7ici bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olacakt\u0131r. Kal\u0131c\u0131 bir yard\u0131m i\u00e7in, annenin de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebildi\u011fi bir zamanda o kafa kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131ran, o anla\u015f\u0131lamayan ana geri d\u00f6n\u00fcp b\u00fcy\u00fcte\u00e7le yakla\u015fmak gerekir.<br>Bu da kolay bir i\u015f de\u011fildir. Bebekle ilgilenirken, bir anne olma s\u00fcrecindeyken, fiziksel hormonal psikolojik \u00e7ok yo\u011fun \u015feyler ya\u015farken, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyada \u00e7ok fazla \u015fey olurken buna zaman bulmak, zaman ay\u0131rmak zordur. Yine de bir yerden ba\u015flamak, bunu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak \u00f6nemlidir. Bir \u015feyleri anlamland\u0131rmak bebe\u011fe iyi gelece\u011fi gibi anneye de kendi yolculu\u011funda iyi gelecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf Bharath G. S., <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.unsplash.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Winnicott \u015f\u00f6yle devam ediyor:&#8220;Kendilerini kolayca yetersiz hissederler. Her \u015fey i\u00e7in kitaba bakmak ya da radyo dinlemek zorunda kal\u0131rlarsa do\u011fru \u015feyi yapsalar bile hep \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 kalm\u0131\u015f olacaklard\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fru olan derhal yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Tam olarak do\u011fru zamanda harekete ge\u00e7mek, deyim yerindeyse hareket sadece sezgisel veya i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcsel ise m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir. Daha sonras\u0131nda i\u015fin i\u00e7ine ak\u0131l girebilir ve [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":463,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/462"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=462"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/462\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":476,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/462\/revisions\/476"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}