{"id":442,"date":"2020-12-01T17:50:35","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T16:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=442"},"modified":"2020-12-02T13:24:21","modified_gmt":"2020-12-02T12:24:21","slug":"insan-dogasi1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=442","title":{"rendered":"insan do\u011fas\u01311"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post10.2.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-453\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post10.2.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post10.2.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post10.2.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post10.2.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post10.2.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/post10.2.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunlar hayat\u0131n her an\u0131nda \u00f6nemli birer konuyken belki de ebeveynlikte \u00e7ok daha fazla \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131rlar, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc yepyeni bir d\u00f6neme girilmi\u015ftir, zihin s\u00fcre\u00e7leri \u00e7ok hareketlenmi\u015ftir, \u00e7ok fazla \u015fey sorgulanmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Duygular, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, hisler bir andan di\u011fer ana de\u011fi\u015febilirler, bu insan olman\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131nda vard\u0131r. \u00dcstelik, birbirine z\u0131t iki duygu, iki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ayn\u0131 anda var olabilir. Mesela bir ki\u015fi bebe\u011fini ayn\u0131 anda hem \u00e7ok sevebilir hem de ona \u00e7ok sinirlenebilir veya ki\u015fi e\u015fini g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde \u00e7ok \u00f6zlemi\u015f olabilir ama yan\u0131na geldi\u011finde o an orada olmas\u0131n\u0131 istemeyebilir (ayn\u0131 \u015fey her iki e\u015f i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir) veya bir anne kendisine \u00e7ok yard\u0131m\u0131 dokunaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in annesinin\/kay\u0131nvalidesinin onlara gelmesini isteyebilirken bir yandan da ara ara sinirlerine de dokunaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in bunu istemeyebilir (ayn\u0131 durum anne\/kay\u0131nvalide i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir).<br>Bu \u00f6rnekler \u00e7ok \u00e7e\u015fitlendirilebilir, bunlar\u0131n normal oldu\u011funu bilmek \u00f6nemlidir.<br>\u00d6nemli not: Bir \u015feyin her iki y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc bir arada tutabilme becerisi ruhsall\u0131\u011f\u0131n geli\u015fimsel bir a\u015famas\u0131d\u0131r. Bunun yeti\u015fkinlikte nas\u0131l ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131, z\u0131tl\u0131klar\u0131n nas\u0131l tolere edildi\u011fi\/edilmedi\u011fi ge\u00e7mi\u015fte bu a\u015famadan nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ildi\u011fi ile \u00e7ok ili\u015fkilidir. Bu konuya daha sonra geri d\u00f6nece\u011fim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrde olan ile onun arkas\u0131nda yatan nedenler aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fki ise her zaman kolay a\u00e7\u0131klanabilir bir ili\u015fki olmayabilir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla sadece g\u00f6r\u00fcnen \u00fczerinden olu\u015fturulan fikirler ancak birer varsay\u0131m olabilirler. Annelik-babal\u0131k ser\u00fcveni i\u00e7in de bu b\u00f6yledir, anne-baba yeterince dinlenmeden d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan yap\u0131lan yorumlar ancak birer varsay\u0131md\u0131r, ger\u00e7e\u011fi yans\u0131tmayabilirler. E\u011fer ger\u00e7ek ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lacaksa anne ve babaya ele\u015ftirilmeyecekleri g\u00fcvenli bir alan sa\u011flanarak dinlenmeleri elzemdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf Jason Leung, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.unsplash.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bunlar hayat\u0131n her an\u0131nda \u00f6nemli birer konuyken belki de ebeveynlikte \u00e7ok daha fazla \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131rlar, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc yepyeni bir d\u00f6neme girilmi\u015ftir, zihin s\u00fcre\u00e7leri \u00e7ok hareketlenmi\u015ftir, \u00e7ok fazla \u015fey sorgulanmaktad\u0131r. Duygular, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, hisler bir andan di\u011fer ana de\u011fi\u015febilirler, bu insan olman\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131nda vard\u0131r. \u00dcstelik, birbirine z\u0131t iki duygu, iki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ayn\u0131 anda var olabilir. Mesela bir ki\u015fi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":457,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[12],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/442"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=442"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/442\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":473,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/442\/revisions\/473"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/457"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=442"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=442"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=442"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}