{"id":405,"date":"2020-11-29T08:52:40","date_gmt":"2020-11-29T07:52:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=405"},"modified":"2020-11-30T09:13:08","modified_gmt":"2020-11-30T08:13:08","slug":"zihinsel-tasari1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=405","title":{"rendered":"zihinsel tasar\u01311"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post8.2.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-406\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post8.2.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post8.2.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post8.2.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post8.2.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post8.2.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post8.2.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cFantezileriniz, istekleriniz, korkular\u0131n\u0131z ve ge\u00e7mi\u015f hikayenizin kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131ndan olu\u015fturulmu\u015f \u00e7ok say\u0131da hayali bebekler vard\u0131r: oyun arkada\u015f\u0131 bebek, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131 olan bebek, sizin yans\u0131man\u0131z olan bebek, kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ve yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kan\u0131t\u0131 olan bebek, sizi b\u00fct\u00fcn bir insana tan\u0131mlayan bebek, kaybedilen bir a\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n fantezi bebe\u011fi ve benzerleri gibi.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda yeni gelen bebe\u011fe ya da \u00e7ekirdek aileye dair tasar\u0131lar, hayaller olabilir. Bunlar daha \u00f6nceki jenerasyonlardan aktar\u0131lan \u015feyler olabilecekleri gibi, yeni anne-baban\u0131n kendi arzular\u0131n\u0131 da ta\u015f\u0131yabilirler (az \u00f6nce verilen \u00f6rnekler gibi).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Hayali bebekler dikkat edilmezse ve ileriye ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131rlarsa, sorunlara yol a\u00e7abilirler ve ger\u00e7ek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu ya \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r ya da uygun olmayan rollere itebilirler.&#8221; (sf. 59) \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir bebe\u011fe bir rol bah\u015fetmek ve ondan o rol\u00fc oynamas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek bebe\u011fi otantik kendili\u011finden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<br>&#8220;Zihinsel bir tasar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n oldu\u011funu fark etmek \u00f6nemlidir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir kez fark\u0131nda oldu\u011funuzda ondan ka\u00e7\u0131nmaya ya da onu doldurmaya karar verebilirsiniz.&#8221; (sf. 59) Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bu durumu bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan bilin\u00e7 d\u00fczlemine ta\u015f\u0131mak \u00e7ok kritiktir.<br>&#8220;Hayal etti\u011finiz bebek ve aile, kendini do\u011frulayan kehanet haline gelir.&#8221; (sf. 59) Yani zihindeki bu tasar\u0131lar kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7e\u015fitli yollar arar ve de bulurlar: Bireyin hikayesini etkilerler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu konuyu yine iki d\u00fczlemde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz.<br>Birincisi yeni gelen bebe\u011fin hikayesi: Acaba yeni anne-baban\u0131n yeni gelen bebekle ilgili bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131 tasar\u0131lar\u0131 var m\u0131d\u0131r ve varsa bunlar nelerdir?<br>\u0130kincisi ise yeni anne-baban\u0131n bireysel hikayeleri: Acaba yeni anne-baba i\u00e7ine do\u011fduklar\u0131 ailelerde bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131 tasar\u0131lara maruz kalm\u0131\u015flar m\u0131d\u0131r (hatta belki hala kal\u0131yorlard\u0131r), evetse bunlar nelerdir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yar\u0131n ayn\u0131 kitaptan ilerleyecek, bu konuyu biraz \u00f6rneklendirece\u011fim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Unsplash<\/a>.<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cFantezileriniz, istekleriniz, korkular\u0131n\u0131z ve ge\u00e7mi\u015f hikayenizin kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131ndan olu\u015fturulmu\u015f \u00e7ok say\u0131da hayali bebekler vard\u0131r: oyun arkada\u015f\u0131 bebek, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131 olan bebek, sizin yans\u0131man\u0131z olan bebek, kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ve yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kan\u0131t\u0131 olan bebek, sizi b\u00fct\u00fcn bir insana tan\u0131mlayan bebek, kaybedilen bir a\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n fantezi bebe\u011fi ve benzerleri gibi.&#8221; Bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda yeni gelen bebe\u011fe ya da \u00e7ekirdek aileye dair tasar\u0131lar, hayaller [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":429,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=405"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":414,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405\/revisions\/414"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/429"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=405"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=405"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=405"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}