{"id":363,"date":"2020-11-25T16:31:21","date_gmt":"2020-11-25T15:31:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=363"},"modified":"2020-11-25T16:31:21","modified_gmt":"2020-11-25T15:31:21","slug":"bilincdisi2-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=363","title":{"rendered":"bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u01312"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post5.2.1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-364\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post5.2.1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post5.2.1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post5.2.1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post5.2.1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post5.2.1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/post5.2.1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek ya\u015fant\u0131 ne olursa olsun, o ya\u015fant\u0131n\u0131n bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda nas\u0131l kaydedildi\u011fi de\u011fi\u015febilir. Mesela hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedeniyle annesi uzun s\u00fcre hastaneye yatan iki ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u0131z bunu annesinin kendisini sevmedi\u011fi, o nedenle gitti\u011fi \u015feklinde yorumlay\u0131p kaydedebilir ve yeterince sevilmedi\u011fi fikri t\u00fcm yeti\u015fkin hayat\u0131 boyunca ona f\u0131s\u0131ldayabilir. Veya \u00e7ok \u00e7ocuklu bir ailede b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f, bu nedenle di\u011ferlerinin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmedi\u011fi takdirde fark\u0131na var\u0131lmayan biri fark\u0131na var\u0131lmak istedi\u011finde bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yeti\u015fkinli\u011finde de s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilir.<br>Bireysel hikayede, ger\u00e7ekte ne ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u00e7ok ki\u015finin o ya\u015fant\u0131y\u0131 nas\u0131l alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunu \u015fu \u015fekilde de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz: Ebeveynlerin nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli olsa da, \u00e7ocu\u011fun bireysel hikayesi s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda onun bir ad\u0131m \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ecek olan \u00e7ocu\u011fun bunu nas\u0131l alg\u0131layaca\u011f\u0131 ve kaydedece\u011fidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131na kaydedilenler silinmezler, zihnin bir yerinde varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcrler, bazen de beklenmedik anlarda ba\u015f g\u00f6sterirler. Ebeveynlikte de bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan bir\u00e7ok malzeme bilincin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peki bunlar\u0131n fark\u0131na var\u0131lamaz m\u0131? Elbette var\u0131labilir. Bunun i\u00e7in \u00f6ncelikle ki\u015finin kendisine d\u00f6nme, kendisi hakk\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme, i\u00e7eriden gelenlere dikkat kesilme motivasyonunun ve cesaretinin olmas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir. Fakat bir zihnin dinamikleri ancak ba\u015fka bir zihinle fark edilebilir, o nedenle as\u0131l ayd\u0131nlat\u0131c\u0131 olan ba\u015fka bir zihnin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Bu bir terapist, bir dost, bir akraba, bir grupla konu\u015fma \u015feklinde olabilece\u011fi gibi, bir ba\u015fka zihinden \u00e7\u0131kan bir kitap, bir \u015fark\u0131, bir film de fark\u0131ndal\u0131k kazand\u0131rabilir.<br>En g\u00fczeli de \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilmek i\u00e7in g\u00fcvenli bir alan\u0131n olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf, Caleb Minear, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsplash.com\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.unsplash.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Unsplash<\/a><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ger\u00e7ek ya\u015fant\u0131 ne olursa olsun, o ya\u015fant\u0131n\u0131n bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda nas\u0131l kaydedildi\u011fi de\u011fi\u015febilir. Mesela hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedeniyle annesi uzun s\u00fcre hastaneye yatan iki ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u0131z bunu annesinin kendisini sevmedi\u011fi, o nedenle gitti\u011fi \u015feklinde yorumlay\u0131p kaydedebilir ve yeterince sevilmedi\u011fi fikri t\u00fcm yeti\u015fkin hayat\u0131 boyunca ona f\u0131s\u0131ldayabilir. Veya \u00e7ok \u00e7ocuklu bir ailede b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f, bu nedenle di\u011ferlerinin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmedi\u011fi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":365,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/363"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=363"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/363\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":366,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/363\/revisions\/366"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/365"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}