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D\u00fcn daha \u00e7ok bebekle birlikte gelen \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131mlardan bahsetmi\u015ftim. Bu durum \u00e7ocu\u011fun her ya\u015f\u0131nda olur: Anne-babalar \u00e7ocuk iki ya\u015f\u0131ndayken kendi iki ya\u015f, on ya\u015f\u0131ndayken kendi on ya\u015f, ergenken kendi ergenlik dinamiklerine dair \u015feyler ya\u015fayacaklard\u0131r ve bunlar g\u00fcncel davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 da etkileyecektir. Bu do\u011fald\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kazanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan iki ya\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011funun ebeveynlerinin ‘ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k’ konusunda kendi ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 ve ak\u0131llar\u0131ndaki \u015fablonlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 tav\u0131rlar\u0131nda etkili olacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocukla birlikte ebeveynler sanki ge\u00e7mi\u015flerine do\u011fru bir yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015flard\u0131r ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun ge\u00e7ti\u011fi her evreden ge\u00e7erler -kendi anne ve babalar\u0131yla \u00e7e\u015fitli hesapla\u015fmalar\u0131n olmas\u0131 da bo\u015funa de\u011fildir.
Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, \u00f6rne\u011fin iki ya\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011funun dinamiklerini, yani zihin me\u015fguliyetlerini, neleri \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, her anlamda nelerle u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek o iki ya\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011funa ebeveyn olmay\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Bu \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011fu anlamay\u0131 sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in b\u00f6yledir, ama ayn\u0131 zamanda yeti\u015fkinin i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda nelerin tetiklendi\u011fini bilmeyi sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in de b\u00f6yledir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015eimdi bir de, \u00e7ekirdekten sadece bir ad\u0131m d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p b\u00fcy\u00fckanne-babalar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Bu \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 onlar da ya\u015farlar, hatta bu \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131mlar daha bebek do\u011fmadan, bir torun gelece\u011fi haberi ile birlikte ba\u015flayabilir. Onlar ayn\u0131 zamanda kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131nda art\u0131k birer ebeveyn olarak g\u00f6rmektedirler ve fark\u0131nda olarak ya da olmayarak, zihinleri hem kendi bebekliklerine hem de kendilerinin ilk ebeveyn olduklar\u0131 zamana yolculuk edebilir. Bunlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda bir de zaman\u0131n ge\u00e7ti\u011fi ger\u00e7e\u011fi ile kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yalard\u0131r; art\u0131k iki alt jenerasyonun zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015ftir, sadece anne-baba de\u011fil b\u00fcy\u00fckanne-babad\u0131rlar ve bu her ne kadar g\u00fczel bir \u015fey olsa da ba\u015f etmesi kolay bir deneyim olmayabilir.
Aileye yeni bir bebek geldi\u011finde, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 psikolojik, hormonal ve fiziksel de\u011fi\u015fiklikler nedeniyle en zor i\u015f yeni annenin olsa da ve en \u00e7ok deste\u011fe onun ihtiyac\u0131 olsa da, bebek dahil her jenerasyon kendi meseleleriyle u\u011fra\u015fmaktad\u0131r, ortal\u0131k biraz(!) kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00fcm bunlar ne kadar bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ya\u015fan\u0131yorsa bug\u00fcne o kadar fazla yans\u0131mas\u0131 olur, bu b\u00f6yledir, i\u00e7g\u00f6r\u00fcyle birlikte de\u011fi\u015febilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto\u011fraf Jakob Owen<\/a>, U<\/a>nsplash<\/a><\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
D\u00fcn daha \u00e7ok bebekle birlikte gelen \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131mlardan bahsetmi\u015ftim. Bu durum \u00e7ocu\u011fun her ya\u015f\u0131nda olur: Anne-babalar \u00e7ocuk iki ya\u015f\u0131ndayken kendi iki ya\u015f, on ya\u015f\u0131ndayken kendi on ya\u015f, ergenken kendi ergenlik dinamiklerine dair \u015feyler ya\u015fayacaklard\u0131r ve bunlar g\u00fcncel davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 da etkileyecektir. Bu do\u011fald\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kazanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan iki ya\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011funun ebeveynlerinin ‘ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k’ konusunda kendi ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 ve ak\u0131llar\u0131ndaki […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":328,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/326"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=326"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/326\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":332,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/326\/revisions\/332"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/328"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=326"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=326"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=326"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}