{"id":293,"date":"2020-11-21T08:26:41","date_gmt":"2020-11-21T07:26:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=293"},"modified":"2020-11-22T10:53:20","modified_gmt":"2020-11-22T09:53:20","slug":"zihin1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=293","title":{"rendered":"zihin1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Post1.2-2-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Post1.2-2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Post1.2-2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Post1.2-2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Post1.2-2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Post1.2-2-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Post1.2-2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Akl\u0131m\u0131za &#8220;birden&#8221; bir \u015fey geldi\u011finde ya da &#8220;beklenmedik&#8221; bir anda duyguland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, nas\u0131l oldu\u011funu anlamadan \u00f6fkelendi\u011fimizde, sessizle\u015fti\u011fimizde, i\u00e7imize kapanmak istedi\u011fimizde, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyada bir yerlerde bunlar\u0131n bir tetikleyicisi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mesela \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n oldu\u011fu bir yeri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Bir ki\u015fi orada vakit ge\u00e7irdi\u011finde kendi \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131na dair an\u0131lar\u0131 canlanabilir ve fark\u0131nda bile olmadan o d\u00f6neme dair duygular uyanabilir, hatta devam\u0131nda o duygular \u00e7e\u015fitli davran\u0131\u015flara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Bunlar bilin\u00e7li de olabilir bilin\u00e7siz de olabilir.<br>Bunun ayn\u0131s\u0131 aram\u0131za bir bebek kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da olur: Bebek etraftakileri kendi bebekli\u011fine g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. Bebek bak\u0131m veren ki\u015fiye %100 ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131yken etraftakiler de en ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 oldu\u011fu erken d\u00f6nem ili\u015fkilerine giderler \u00f6rne\u011fin. \u0130stesek de istemesek de bu olur ve inan\u0131n, bebeklikte \u00f6zellikle dil \u00f6ncesi d\u00f6nem \u00c7OK yo\u011fun deneyimler i\u00e7erir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yani ebeveynler bir yandan bebeklerine en iyi bak\u0131m\u0131 vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken bir yandan da ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimleri canlanmaktad\u0131r ve bu bebek bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 olduk\u00e7a zorla\u015ft\u0131ran bir durumdur: Hem omuzlar\u0131na binen yeni sorumluluklarla u\u011fra\u015fmaktad\u0131rlar hem de kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyalar\u0131 m\u00fctemadiyen tetiklenmekte, zihinleri kendi bebekliklerine geri d\u00f6nmektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir \u015feyleri anlamak istedi\u011fimizde bu dinami\u011fi bilmek \u00f6nemlidir. Neyi neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, s\u00f6yledi\u011fimizi, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc her zaman bilmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir ve bu gerekmemektedir de ama yine de b\u00f6yle bir zihin ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilmek de\u011ferlidir. Bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131 katman yo\u011fun bir \u015fekilde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bilin\u00e7li olarak da hem bug\u00fcne hem de ge\u00e7mi\u015fe alan a\u00e7mak, bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse, rahatlat\u0131c\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yar\u0131n bu konuyu biraz daha \u00f6rneklendirece\u011fim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Foto\u011fraf <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@monaeendra?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Mona Eendra<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Unsplash<\/a><\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Akl\u0131m\u0131za &#8220;birden&#8221; bir \u015fey geldi\u011finde ya da &#8220;beklenmedik&#8221; bir anda duyguland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, nas\u0131l oldu\u011funu anlamadan \u00f6fkelendi\u011fimizde, sessizle\u015fti\u011fimizde, i\u00e7imize kapanmak istedi\u011fimizde, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyada bir yerlerde bunlar\u0131n bir tetikleyicisi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz. Mesela \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n oldu\u011fu bir yeri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. 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