{"id":288,"date":"2020-11-20T07:23:10","date_gmt":"2020-11-20T06:23:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=288"},"modified":"2020-11-22T00:43:47","modified_gmt":"2020-11-21T23:43:47","slug":"cibran","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=288","title":{"rendered":"Cibran"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/25.2-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-289\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/25.2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/25.2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/25.2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/25.2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/25.2-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/25.2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar kendi yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulacaklar, i\u00e7ine do\u011fduklar\u0131 d\u00f6nemi herkesten iyi bilecekler ne de olsa. Ebeveynler ise, Halil Cibran\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6zleriyle, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in yay da olsalar, girdikleri bu yeni d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yolculu\u011funa e\u015flik etme sorumlulu\u011funda da olsalar, onlar da zaman\u0131nda ileriye do\u011fru at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f birer oklar ve bireysel yolculuklar\u0131 devam etmekte.\u00a0<br>Bu unutuluyor bazen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dcnl\u00fc psikanalist D.W.Winnicott da Ebeveynlerle Sohbet adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cE\u011fer \u015fansl\u0131ysan\u0131z ve ba\u015f edilmesi zor yeni p\u00fcr\u00fczler ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131\u015fsa anne ile \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131ndaki \u00f6zel durum yava\u015f yava\u015f sona erebilir (\u00f6zel durum derken hamilelik boyunca geli\u015fen ve do\u011fumdan sonra bir s\u00fcre daha devam eden, kopmayan ba\u011fdan bahsediyor). Ard\u0131ndan kendinizi yeniden, d\u00fcnyada yeti\u015fkin bir insan olarak yap\u0131land\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 ba\u015flar ve bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 aylar s\u00fcrer. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, bebek i\u00e7in ac\u0131 verici olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen bebe\u011finiz sizden bunu yapabilmenizi bekler.<br>\u2026 Bununla beraber eski konumunuza da asla tamamen kavu\u015famazs\u0131n\u0131z. Kavu\u015facak olsan\u0131z, ebeveyn olmaya son verdi\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelir.\u201d (sf. 59)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar kendi yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulacaklar, i\u00e7ine do\u011fduklar\u0131 d\u00f6nemi herkesten iyi bilecekler ne de olsa. Ebeveynler ise, Halil Cibran\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6zleriyle, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in yay da olsalar, girdikleri bu yeni d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yolculu\u011funa e\u015flik etme sorumlulu\u011funda da olsalar, onlar da zaman\u0131nda ileriye do\u011fru at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f birer oklar ve bireysel yolculuklar\u0131 devam etmekte.\u00a0Bu unutuluyor bazen. \u00dcnl\u00fc psikanalist D.W.Winnicott da Ebeveynlerle Sohbet [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":290,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/288"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=288"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/288\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":307,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/288\/revisions\/307"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/290"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=288"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=288"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=288"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}