{"id":259,"date":"2020-11-17T22:53:52","date_gmt":"2020-11-17T21:53:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=259"},"modified":"2020-11-24T07:24:34","modified_gmt":"2020-11-24T06:24:34","slug":"19","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=259","title":{"rendered":"#19"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/19.3-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/19.3-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/19.3-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/19.3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/19.3-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/19.3-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/19.3.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Burada Fraiberg, Adelson ve Shapiro&#8217;nun harika makalesi \u201cBak\u0131mevindeki Hayaletler\u201de (Orijinali: Ghosts in the Nursery) g\u00f6nderme yap\u0131yorum. Fraiberg burada, bu g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen duyulmayan hayaletlerin anne-baban\u0131n ebeveynli\u011fini fark\u0131nda olunmadan etkileyebildi\u011fini, mesela \u00e7ocukla derin bir ba\u011f kurmay\u0131 engelleyebilece\u011fini ve dolayl\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimine dokunabilece\u011fini anlat\u0131r.<br>Bir bebe\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrken sadece anne-baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi rol oynamaz; davran\u0131\u015flar, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, duygular \u00fcst jenerasyonlardan ta\u015f\u0131nan par\u00e7alar taraf\u0131ndan da etkilenir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Herkesin kendi ailesinden \u00e7ocu\u011funa aktarmak istedi\u011fi \u015feyler oldu\u011fu kadar aktarmak istemedi\u011fi \u015feyler de olabilir. Ya da belki bu konu hi\u00e7 g\u00fcndemde de\u011fildir, ki\u015fi kendi i\u00e7ine do\u011fdu\u011fu aile ya da kendi kurdu\u011fu ailede olanlar hakk\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyordur, olabilir. \u00d6yle ya da b\u00f6yle, baz\u0131 dinamikler kendisini \u00e7e\u015fitli \u015fekillerde \u00e7ok g\u00fczel tekrar ederler ve bazen bizim bundan haberimiz bile olmaz. \u0130\u015fler yolunda gidiyorsa pek sorun \u00e7\u0131kmaz ama bazen de bir \u015feyler insan\u0131n aya\u011f\u0131na dolan\u0131r.<br>S\u00f6z konusu bir \u015feyi de\u011fi\u015ftirmek olursa i\u015fin i\u00e7ine fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 sokmadan olmaz, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fim s\u00fcreci genelde o \u015feye ad\u0131n\u0131 koyabilmekle ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Burada Fraiberg, Adelson ve Shapiro&#8217;nun harika makalesi \u201cBak\u0131mevindeki Hayaletler\u201de (Orijinali: Ghosts in the Nursery) g\u00f6nderme yap\u0131yorum. Fraiberg burada, bu g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen duyulmayan hayaletlerin anne-baban\u0131n ebeveynli\u011fini fark\u0131nda olunmadan etkileyebildi\u011fini, mesela \u00e7ocukla derin bir ba\u011f kurmay\u0131 engelleyebilece\u011fini ve dolayl\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimine dokunabilece\u011fini anlat\u0131r.Bir bebe\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrken sadece anne-baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi rol oynamaz; davran\u0131\u015flar, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, duygular \u00fcst jenerasyonlardan ta\u015f\u0131nan par\u00e7alar [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":261,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=259"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":348,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259\/revisions\/348"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}