{"id":249,"date":"2020-11-17T08:34:51","date_gmt":"2020-11-17T07:34:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=249"},"modified":"2020-11-22T00:08:05","modified_gmt":"2020-11-21T23:08:05","slug":"18","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/?p=249","title":{"rendered":"#18"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/18.3-1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-253\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/18.3-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/18.3-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/18.3-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/18.3-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/18.3-1-620x620.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/18.3-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir bebe\u011fin\/\u00e7ocu\u011fun anne-babas\u0131na, e\u011fer o olam\u0131yorsa ona bakan bir yeti\u015fkine, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ortama bir\u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131dan ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r, bunun tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lacak hi\u00e7bir yan\u0131 yok. Ancak bir bebe\u011fe\/\u00e7ocu\u011fa e\u015flik etmek bir tanr\u0131 gibi olmay\u0131 gerektirmez, olumsuz duygular hissetmek bir \u015feylerin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez. Tam tersi, bu \u00e7ok normaldir ve otantik bir \u015fekilde var olundu\u011funda bunun o ili\u015fkiye \u00e7ok daha fazla faydas\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thomas Gordon bu kitab\u0131nda verdi\u011fi Etkili Anne-Baba E\u011fitimi i\u00e7eri\u011finin g\u00fczel bir \u00f6zetini sunuyor. \u00c7ocuklarla ne zaman nas\u0131l ileti\u015filece\u011fine dair g\u00fczel fikirleri var. Ebeveyn olman\u0131n nas\u0131l alg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ama asl\u0131nda ne oldu\u011funun \u00fczerinde duruyor. Ebeveyn-\u00e7ocuk ikilisinden bahsetti\u011fi gibi, insan olmak \u00fczerinden de birtak\u0131m duygu, davran\u0131\u015f ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerden bahsediyor. O k\u0131s\u0131mlar ayr\u0131ca g\u00fczel \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ba\u015fka bir t\u00fcr olarak alg\u0131lamaktansa biz yeti\u015fkinler gibi alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izmi\u015f oluyor. Yani biz bir ba\u015fka yeti\u015fkine nas\u0131l davran\u0131yorsak, konu\u015furken nelere nas\u0131l \u00f6zen g\u00f6steriyorsak, \u00e7ocuklarla konu\u015furken de ayn\u0131 \u015feyler ge\u00e7erli asl\u0131nda. \u00c7ok g\u00fczel bir toparlama oldu\u011funu ve faydal\u0131 bilgiler i\u00e7erdi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<br>\u201cBebe\u011finizin\/\u00e7ocu\u011funuzun mizac\u0131yla sizin mizac\u0131n\u0131z uyu\u015fmayabilir, ona \u0131s\u0131namayabilirsiniz, o zaman i\u015fler \u00e7ok daha zordur\u201d gibi \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6ylemleri de var.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir bebe\u011fin\/\u00e7ocu\u011fun anne-babas\u0131na, e\u011fer o olam\u0131yorsa ona bakan bir yeti\u015fkine, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ortama bir\u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131dan ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r, bunun tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lacak hi\u00e7bir yan\u0131 yok. Ancak bir bebe\u011fe\/\u00e7ocu\u011fa e\u015flik etmek bir tanr\u0131 gibi olmay\u0131 gerektirmez, olumsuz duygular hissetmek bir \u015feylerin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez. Tam tersi, bu \u00e7ok normaldir ve otantik bir \u015fekilde var olundu\u011funda bunun o ili\u015fkiye [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":250,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/249"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=249"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/249\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":255,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/249\/revisions\/255"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/250"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=249"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=249"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cekirdekgunluk.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=249"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}